The subject of the “strong and independent woman” is one that always gets a laugh out of me. I tend to think of strong and independent women as being a bit like the Tooth Fairy and she don’t exist either. At any rate, I have seen enough “S&I” women to now that dating one would be a really bad idea. The link to the ROK article in the title pretty much agrees with why………
AV8R ( who wrote the ROK article) raises a number of very relevant – yet unfortunate – facts about dealing with S&I women. For example……..
“Everywhere I went with with this broad—and I mean everywhere—she made it a point to let everyone know that she was a doctor. Do you know how embarrassing that shit was?”
Been there and done that. I know other men married to S&I women who have to put up with exactly that and I can’t help cringe every time I hear it.
“Nothing kills a boner quicker than the prattling hole that comes standard on every “strong and independent” woman’s face.”
The sad reality is that most women have no idea how much of a turn off it is to hear them bullshit on about how S&I they are (or think they are). Women love to say that men are “intimidated” by S&I women and I am going to put paid to that line of shit here and now. MEN ARE NOT INTIMIDATED BY WOMEN WHO THINK THEY ARE STRONG AND INDEPENDENT. MEN ARE TURNED OFF BY WOMEN WHO CONTINUALLY GO ON AND ON ABOUT HOW “S&I” THEY THINK THEY ARE. The reality is that being S&I is no big deal; after all men are expected to be strong and independent and I can’t remember the last time I heard a man tell me how S&I he was. For some reason, women seem to think that achieving what is expected of men – even though men have none of the advantages given to women – is a big fucking deal. Wake up, Princesses – it isn’t.
On the other hand, I tend to view people who constantly make the same claim about themselves over and over as being full of shit. Someone who is genuinely happy won’t ever tell you how happy they are because they won’t care about impressing you; they’ll be too busy being happy. The only people that go around telling everyone how happy they are tend to be people whom are miserable. The same applies to women who constantly remind everyone else how “strong and independent” they are. In most cases, were it not for female-friendly universities and affirmative action legislation forcing employers to hire them, most of the “S&I” women would still be living with their parents. In reality, S&I is only S&I if you earn it off your own back; if the rules have to be changed to suit you, then it doesn’t count and no one cares.
AV8R hit on another point that I have noticed that “S&I” women don’t have a clue about……..
“She couldn’t seem to grasp the fact that no one gave a single shred of a half-mast fuck about her medical degree.”
There is a particular silly bitch in my organisation who loves to tell anyone who’ll listen (and anyone who wishes they didn’t have to) that she is doing her masters at present. Big fucking deal. Most of the people in our organisation already have a masters and they don’t give a shit either. As far as job performance goes being good at what you do is what people respect you for. Having a piece of paper from a university in nice but doesn’t ultimately prove a great deal. Pretty much every “S&I” woman I have ever met has been oblivious to this.
AV8R mentioned the issue of his woman (or former woman) driving a BMW. I have noticed a trend that nearly every woman who feels she has “made it” in the world needs to show her “success” by buying a luxury car. More often than not, the silly bimbos default on the payments and the car gets repossessed (which says a lot about women being “S&I” in the first place). Most women tend to do this way before they set up a savings plan (oh, wait – I forgot, women don’t know how to save money) or buy a house. To a woman, buying a luxury car she can’t afford is essential to show the world how “S&I” she is. Remember what I said earlier about people using boasting to cover up their true feelings? Same applies here; women feel the need to prove how “S&I” they want to be because deep down, they know it is all a charade.
There is one paragraph in the article that I want to copy in its entirety……..
“So, where have all the good men gone? Perhaps a better question would be: where have all the women that know how to shut the fuck up gone? It’s safe to say that more and more decent men will be riding off into the sunset with their middle fingers held high in the air. A very large portion of these men aren’t exactly basement dwelling retards, either. There are millions upon millions of cumulative dollars being earned by tons of men, and these men will not be sharing that money with a bunch of yippy yappy babbling female assholes. This trend will not be slowing down as time passes by, that’s a guarantee.”
That is absolute gold. If any one passage summarised how many men feel about the modern female, that would have to be it.