It has often been said that men should never put their dicks into crazy women. I go further than that – man should have nothing whatsoever to do with crazy chicks as they are bad news full stop. In truth, most women nowadays are bad news but nutty bitches take it to a whole new level. Take for example for the sad sack who wrote the following post over at Reddit………
In summary, the guy got involved in a relationship with a woman he knew was batshit insane and has ended up on the shit end of the stick. There are a couple of passages from the link that really stand out to me and I’d like to have a look at them in detail……
“I moved into the city with my girlfriend of almost 4 years, back in August. She’s very bipolar and also has some other mental issues that constantly affect our relationship.”
See above. If you know a chick is off the planet before you get involved with her, don’t get involved with her. If you become aware she is in the Twilight Zone after you get to know her (you are probably pretty unobservant, if that’s the case), bail out to save your own sanity.
“She told me that she hadn’t been taking her medicine for her mental issues”
Bad news – either she cannot take responsibility for her situation (and show me a woman that can) or she is in denial about being a fruitcake. In my experience, fruitcakes in denial are the most dangerous kind.
“Her response was to start swinging on me.This has happened a few times.”
The first time should have been the last time. Violent chicks are a no-no and if you get or keep involved with them, you will get fucked up. If more men headed for the door when their women got physical, female violence would die out overnight. Guy like the one in the post unwittingly perpetuate female domestic violence.
“This time, the fighting was about me not having enough sex with her. I caught pneumonia twice, and was having a horrible 3-4 weeks. I tried explaining that to her and she had no part of that.”
Sounds like a complete lack of empathy to me. Perhaps the psycho girlfriend is a sociopath for the bargain. Again, basic consideration for others is a prerequisite for being in a relationship. If you don’t have it – like this woman obviously doesn’t – you shouldn’t expect others to commit to a relationship with you.
“I have told her many, many times that I cannot keep taking this type of tantrum from her”
Yet he can and does and then wonders why the psycho-bitch keeps dishing it out. I don’t care what the reason is, no woman is worth having to put us with physical (or any other kind of) abuse.
“She called her parents and told them that I “Punched her in the face“.
And of course, mommy and daddy came to their psycho daughter’s rescue. Could have been worse; the chick could have told a bunch of white-knight to go and beat the fucking shit out of the boyfriend. Either way, women who make up bullshit to save their own asses are not worth the trouble.
“Her mom has attempted suicide about 15+ times, throws massive tantrums, and is very abusive when she has an episode, and my girlfriend is exactly the same way.”
Golden Rule when getting to know women – Always get to know their mothers. Women ALWAYS turn out the same as their mothers. In this case, the guy should have been a bit more observant.
“I loved this girl more than anything else in my life, and I made damn sure that she knew that every single day.”
I can almost taste the beta in that statement. The woman in question obviously does little to make her man feel special any day, let alone every day. I don’t mind putting into relationships but there has to be a two-way street. Relationships where one party gives and the other only takes are abusive. This guy is on a hiding to nothing.
“I just don’t get this. I have spent hours and hours of my life talking these things out with her, telling her that I was there to protect and take care of her, not tear her down and abuse her. I clean for her, cook for her, spend EVERY MINUTE of my free time with her, and even miss her more than anything or anyone else when she’s not with me. And now, my entire relationship has been totally ruined because of one of these episodes.”
See above comment. It sounds like this guy is a great guy who has lots to contribute to a relationship who has would up with the wrong woman. If this woman was serious about this guy, she would care enough to take her damn medication, treat him with respect, not abuse him and contribute to the household. At present, her value to the relationship is fuck-all.
“This girl was my life, and now she’s not going to be around anymore.”
That’s a blessing. The rest of the post is devoted to the guy saying how much he loves the woman and how he misses her. I don’t doubt he is sincere and well-intentioned but at some stage, he has to start thinking of himself. Getting into a pattern of abusive relationships is not a way to live life. The guy sounds like a cool guy who has lots to offer the right woman – just not the one he has wasted his time with. Best of luck to him in the future. Perhaps now that he is away from her he will see the light and meet a (reasonably) sane woman.
In a nutshell, crazy women are toxic and given the chance, will fuck up a man’s life for their own sick amusement. Loony chicks are best treated like snakes – to be avoided wherever possible.