I have long held the view that sex is a right and not a privilege for the men in a society. In terms of priorities in interactions with the opposite gender, men prioritise sex whilst women prioritise relationships. Society pretty much holds the view that all women are entitled to be in a relationship (usually, with an alpha male). If you don’t believe me, trying pointing out to any group of people – especially one containing women – that a certain third party women is not worthy of any man’s attention and see the reactions you get. I guarantee you that pretty much all women in earshot will line up to tear you a new asshole and any mangina lackies hanging about won’t be far behind them. That being the case, if women are entitled to their priority (relationships), why are men discouraged from feeling entitled to their priority (sex)? Just about all women claim that men are not entitled to sex yet expect the entire male gender to provide them with relationships (again, only with the choice alpha males – the ordinary man on the street can suit himself). This issue is covered in the link below….
There are a number of passages in the linked article that struck home with me……
“In mass societies, however, there’s always been a steady stream of losers who get nothing in return. If we tried to imagine a chief denying the tribe’s young men sex and status, we know he wouldn’t be alive much longer. For a tribe to exist in peace the needs of most of its people must be met. When there is no bread, there are bread riots. When men have no hope of wealth, family, or even of getting sex they withdraw their loyalty to the existing social order and turn to desperate measures. Predictably, across time and place, ‘losers’ will defect.”
Society was much more functional sixty years ago than today because back in the day, the drivers of society – read men – were pretty much guaranteed to be able to meet a woman, have regular sex and be able to carry on their line via their offspring. This served to reward men for their efforts and encouraged them to work harder and continue to contribute to society. Today, it is a whole different (and much worse)ballgame. Modern men are basically denied any form of female companionship unless they are alpha. Even should the odd non-alpha male snare a woman, she is free to leave him whenever she wants, for no reason whatsoever and rob him blind in the process. This legalised criminality goes by the name of No Fault Divorce and is inflicted in innumerable men daily through no fault of their own. As a result, society if full of single men with no female prospects whatsoever whom are still expected to contribute to society (ie work hard and pay taxes) for the benefit of others whilst at the same time deriving little or no benefit themselves. In short, the life of the average man in society is one of giving and never receiving. Is it any wonder we have a generation of dysfunctional men who have little wish to be a part or – let alone contribute towards – society?
“Boys are taught from youth that no one owes them anything, that they must prove themselves by “pulling themselves up by their own bootstraps.” They have to prove they aren’t ‘dogs’, ‘pigs’, ‘rapists’, ‘creepers’, or ‘peter pans’ but never is there as single mention of what they get in return.”
This is generally true; there is little or no slack cut for males in the modern world. Women, on the other hand, are given every advantage imaginable ranging from an educational system that exclusively caters to their needs, priority placement in universities, affirmative action policies in employment and family friendly conditions in the workplace. None of the above are women expected to earn or repay; they are deemed to be rights. Men do it tough in the world. The education system and the feminist teachers in it are not male-friendly. Few scholarships exist to help men in education. Men battle sexist employment policies in the workplace. Yet despite this, men survive and in many cases, thrive. Men do this despite the fact that for most of them, there is no reward. Society does little to thank men for keeping the world running yet still expects men to slave at it day in and day out. It is hardly any wonder that increasing numbers of men are saying, “Fuck this” and carving their own paths in life.
“A tribe that fails to set up its young men with women keeps false faith on its side of the social contract. If they won’t get you a woman they’re telling you you’re worthless—that you don’t deserve to pass down your line. They don’t want you.”
That is the ultimate truth. If society truly valued its men (especially its young, horny ones) it would ensure that the needs of said men were met. This would include access to better education, employment and of course, universal access to women. Given that society places a huge emphasis on younger men needing to prove their masculinity by having sex with women, it is hardly surprising that men whom are unable to do so (and not being helped by society) tend to feel disenfranchised from the world around them. People (and especially men) who feel disenfranchised from society tend to become aggressive, violent and unproductive; sounds a bit like many young men in the modern era. Lack of sexual identity in men causes significant depression. One has to wonder if the inability to find any sexual partners is the root cause of the high rate of male suicide in modern society, If so, society has a lot to answer for.
“A group that values you makes sure you have sexual relationships that bind you to your people and give you a stake that you’ll be willing to defend when the going gets tough. Because they value you, they want your genes in the next generation.”
Damn straight! Modern men – whom are increasingly becoming sexually disenfranchised – have no reason to feel bound to society and even less reason to come to the defence of society when all starts going to hell. If society wants to solve a lot of the problems of and caused by young men, then society needs to take an active role in ensuring its younger men are cared for and their needs are met. I’ll leave you with one final quote….
“Helping men find their place and a good woman is the difference between a healthy culture and a pathological cult. The culture reciprocates, enabling its valuable cooperators to thrive. On the other hand, the cult parasitizes, tricking its men into becoming castrated worker ants while the leaders take all the women. The cult elders expect a young man to contribute decades of labor, to march into battle without complaint, but cannot even offer him sex.”
Men are increasingly being told to respect others and especially women. This is a bit abstract for many men when they realise that society has little respect for most of them. There is no doubt that the lessening of access to sex for men has led to decline in civilisation as we know it. I am not sure I want to imagine what the world will be like in another sixty years.